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New Relationship

Postby ranchersswiss » Tue Jul 31, 2018 9:17 am

Is it okay to enter into a new relationship with another person after a failed marriage? How long do you usually wait before one can get involved with someone after a divorce? Just want to know your thoughts on this..

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Re: New Relationship

Postby Brute 23 » Tue Jul 31, 2018 9:29 am

Depends on if you care if people talk about your or not. Also, depends if its the X-female of a bro... then bro-code comes in to play also. We would need more details to be able to accurately access the situation. :)

Im just kidding... do what makes both of yall happy and screw the rest of it. :tiphat:
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Re: New Relationship

Postby ddd75 » Tue Jul 31, 2018 9:38 am

whenever you find the person you like.. thats when.

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Re: New Relationship

Postby M-5 » Tue Jul 31, 2018 10:06 am

you should always make sure the Cow milks before you buy her.
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Re: New Relationship

Postby Rafter S » Tue Jul 31, 2018 10:31 am

Those questions are way too general to get a definitive answer. I'd think the circumstances of the divorce would play a big part on when it would be prudent to begin a new relationship.
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Re: New Relationship

Postby slick4591 » Tue Jul 31, 2018 11:06 am

That's a good question. I never waited until after the divorce. He!!, they done had everything so there wasn't anything else to loose.
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Re: New Relationship

Postby Nesikep » Tue Jul 31, 2018 12:13 pm

Brute 23 wrote:Depends on if you care if people talk about your or not. Also, depends if its the X-female of a bro... then bro-code comes in to play also. We would need more details to be able to accurately access the situation. :)

Im just kidding... do what makes both of yall happy and screw the rest of it. :tiphat:

Yeah, back in 2005, me and my 2 buddies went through a breakup all in the same month.. one buddy's mistake was getting with other buddy's ex wife 2 months later.. that was VERY MESSY.

Edited to add that 13 years later they're still together!
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Re: New Relationship

Postby Jogeephus » Tue Jul 31, 2018 2:04 pm

I'd advise you use extreme caution and take it real slow because after your hand has been in the hot coals of a fire putting your hand in warm cow shyt can feel real good. Just take it slow for your own sake but don't worry about what others think because the one's who will bash you will bash you no matter what you do. Just be careful for your own sake. JMO
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Re: New Relationship

Postby Bright Raven » Tue Jul 31, 2018 2:21 pm

Jogeephus wrote:I'd advise you use extreme caution and take it real slow because after your hand has been in the hot coals of a fire putting your hand in warm cow shyt can feel real good. Just take it slow for your own sake but don't worry about what others think because the one's who will bash you will bash you no matter what you do. Just be careful for your own sake. JMO


Amen Brother Joe.

Man should beware of "woman". As far back in antiquity as you search, they have been deceiving man and corrupting him. Better to take up a celibate life than be corrupted by the heart of a woman.

I will add, you may be going a little too far with that warm cow pie analogy. Lol
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Re: New Relationship

Postby Jogeephus » Tue Jul 31, 2018 2:36 pm

Bright Raven wrote:
Jogeephus wrote:I'd advise you use extreme caution and take it real slow because after your hand has been in the hot coals of a fire putting your hand in warm cow shyt can feel real good. Just take it slow for your own sake but don't worry about what others think because the one's who will bash you will bash you no matter what you do. Just be careful for your own sake. JMO


Amen Brother Joe.

Man should beware of "woman". As far back in antiquity as you search, they have been deceiving man and corrupting him. Better to take up a celibate life than be corrupted by the heart of a woman.

I will add, you may be going a little too far with that warm cow pie analogy. Lol


I think you are missing my point and NO, I don't think I'm exaggerating the cow pie analogy one bit.

I'm not bashing women whatsoever. Just saying you don't need to jump into anything too fast after you've been through a rough stretch of water. Its not fair to the girl nor is it in your best interest. You need time to heal and regroup and get your mind clear.
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Re: New Relationship

Postby Bright Raven » Tue Jul 31, 2018 2:44 pm

Jogeephus wrote:
Bright Raven wrote:
Jogeephus wrote:I'd advise you use extreme caution and take it real slow because after your hand has been in the hot coals of a fire putting your hand in warm cow shyt can feel real good. Just take it slow for your own sake but don't worry about what others think because the one's who will bash you will bash you no matter what you do. Just be careful for your own sake. JMO


Amen Brother Joe.

Man should beware of "woman". As far back in antiquity as you search, they have been deceiving man and corrupting him. Better to take up a celibate life than be corrupted by the heart of a woman.

I will add, you may be going a little too far with that warm cow pie analogy. Lol


I think you are missing my point and NO, I don't think I'm exaggerating the cow pie analogy one bit.

I'm not bashing women whatsoever. Just saying you don't need to jump into anything too fast after you've been through a rough stretch of water. Its not fair to the girl nor is it in your best interest. You need time to heal and regroup and get your mind clear.


Your point was clear. No good man would bash a woman and I was not implying you are guilty. I was adding to your warning. However, the warm cow pie analogy is graphic. Lol But not as graphic as the hairy end of a gut. :mad:
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Re: New Relationship

Postby Jogeephus » Tue Jul 31, 2018 2:49 pm

Bright Raven wrote:Your point was clear. No good man would bash a woman and I was not implying you are guilty. I was adding to your warning. However, the warm cow pie analogy is graphic. Lol


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Re: New Relationship

Postby Bright Raven » Tue Jul 31, 2018 2:56 pm

Jogeephus wrote:
Bright Raven wrote:Your point was clear. No good man would bash a woman and I was not implying you are guilty. I was adding to your warning. However, the warm cow pie analogy is graphic. Lol


Lessons are best learned when you don't sugarcoat a turd.


Now that is an image I had not imagined. Lol
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Re: New Relationship

Postby Fieldhand » Tue Jul 31, 2018 3:19 pm

Jogeephus wrote:I'd advise you use extreme caution and take it real slow because after your hand has been in the hot coals of a fire putting your hand in warm cow shyt can feel real good. Just take it slow for your own sake but don't worry about what others think because the one's who will bash you will bash you no matter what you do. Just be careful for your own sake. JMO


You do have a way with words. :tiphat: Wise statement for either party coming or going.

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Re: New Relationship

Postby Caustic Burno » Tue Jul 31, 2018 3:20 pm

Jogeephus wrote:
Bright Raven wrote:Your point was clear. No good man would bash a woman and I was not implying you are guilty. I was adding to your warning. However, the warm cow pie analogy is graphic. Lol


Lessons are best learned when you don't sugarcoat a turd.


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